I recently found out that my boyfriend of 14 months slept with his ex-girlfriend (whom he dated for five years) a couple weeks ago. I found a text message from his ex stating how much she enjoyed spending time with him the night before. My heart just sank. When I confronted him he tried to deny it..then he realized there was no way of getting out of it. He offered no explaination..said it just happened, even though she came over to his house and they had sex in the bed that we sleep in! We weren't on a "break" or anything, things had been going pretty well. I just don't understand how he could do such a thing. I love him so much and he says he loves me. We've planned on getting married when I get out of school. This is the man I lost two babies with. I really want to have a life with this man, I want to have a healthy baby with him. I'm just afraid I won't ever be able to trust him again. I don't know what to do or what to think. I don't know how I'll be able to move past this, it just makes me sick when I think about it and I think about it all the time. Does anyone think it's possible to love someone and sleep with another person "just because"?? I feel that he has to have little or no respect for me or our relationship or he wouldn't have done it. We've been through so much together..I'm hoping we can get through this too.
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