
Miscarriage Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.

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For those that had your babies cremated, did you keep the ashes or have a them burried? I am up in the air right now with my son. I have his ashes here with me now, but all I do is try like a baby. Just wondering if anyone thought it was easier to have them burried instead.
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