Miscarriage Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.
Arrghhh i think im driving myself crazy!
I wrote a post on here couple days ago explaining how since i miscarried on 1st oct me and my partner havent been usng contraceprtion and ive not had my period yet even though for some mad reason i did an ovulation test 2 half weeks ago that said i was ovulating. well thats confused me coz thought i wouldve had my period by now!
Do you reckon we sometimes try and find pregnancy symptoms? i mean ive been realy tird lately but that doesnt mean im pregnant right? also ive had perios pain style cramps, nw i had these when i was preg both times so i mean it could actually be period pain or i could be pregnant, one or the other.......i wish in a way i'd get my period so at least i knew but if i get my period ill be upset.oh god.....i did a preg test which was neg but it didnt show as positive last time till i was 5 weeks. I mean it took a good 4 months last time to get preg and its not like weve had sex loads and loads, prob 3 times a week since (which for us is not as much as usual), and no contraception,and i didnt bled very ong....only bout 6-7 days so it was fairly soon after that we had sex. god is it even possible????
see im driving myself mad....does anyone else do this or am i bloody crazy.......
I wrote a post on here couple days ago explaining how since i miscarried on 1st oct me and my partner havent been usng contraceprtion and ive not had my period yet even though for some mad reason i did an ovulation test 2 half weeks ago that said i was ovulating. well thats confused me coz thought i wouldve had my period by now!
Do you reckon we sometimes try and find pregnancy symptoms? i mean ive been realy tird lately but that doesnt mean im pregnant right? also ive had perios pain style cramps, nw i had these when i was preg both times so i mean it could actually be period pain or i could be pregnant, one or the other.......i wish in a way i'd get my period so at least i knew but if i get my period ill be upset.oh god.....i did a preg test which was neg but it didnt show as positive last time till i was 5 weeks. I mean it took a good 4 months last time to get preg and its not like weve had sex loads and loads, prob 3 times a week since (which for us is not as much as usual), and no contraception,and i didnt bled very ong....only bout 6-7 days so it was fairly soon after that we had sex. god is it even possible????
see im driving myself mad....does anyone else do this or am i bloody crazy.......
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oh and i felt sick today.....but that could also be anything too! i just choose to pick up on it!!!!
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I did the same thing each time after we had sex after an ovulation test. I believe if you want to be pregnant so bad you will subconsiously create symptoms in your head. You do not do it on purpose. I know it is hard b/c we want to be pregnant again, but try to relax. I know exaclty what you are going through.
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I am having the same problem to so I am with you. I miscarried Oct 9 but nevre had any symptoms excpet for going to the dr and finding out. I was 15 weeks. I had a D&C the 11. my husband and I havent really been trying but I to kinda feel prego to mine should start any day. But i have been feeling sick also. I dont want to get all excited about something either. SO yournot the only one.
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last week i thought i was pregnant. i wasn't late but i was getting the same symptoms i had when i was pregnant in april. i thought for sure i was pregnant but i got my period right on time. i got a blood test done to make sure i wasn't having another m/c and it was neg for pregnancy. the next day the symptoms were pretty much gone so i think it's absolutely possible that you can have pg symptoms when your not pg. i'm sure you've heard this a million times like i have but you just need to relax. the more you think "i wanna have a baby, i wanna have a baby" it'll just take you longer to get pregnant.
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I'm so sorry. I completely understand how much you are stressing out and how obsessed you are right now with wanting to either find out you are pregnant or get your period. I am in the same boat. All I know is that my doctor said that after a miscarriage your period schedule is totally thrown off. I would wait another week to see if you get your period. However, I am a big fan of the Clear Blue Easy DIGITAL pregnancy tests that might give you a clearer reading even if it's early on. But remember...it could still pick up pregnanty hormones that are residual from your miscarriage. Best of luck to you.
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try to stay as calm as poss until you find out for definate. don't know about you but when I was preg with the baby I just lost 11 days ago my symptoms of pregnancy was a lot stronger than those when I just thought I was preg in the 12 months it took me to conceive.
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