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I was finishing up dinner and my brother-in-law began to speak of a friend who just passed away and how he was missing her this Christmas. Then, he went on to say how he could only imagine how his mother was feeling yesterday... her first Christmas without her.
THEN, (this is the part that got me going) he went on to say how lucky each of us were to have no idea what it is like to feel a loss on Christmas. MEANWHILE... here it is, Christmas Day, supposed to be 37 weeks pregnant and getting ready to deliver. How soon people forget. It is like because my angel was never born, it wasn't a "real" loss to him. I couldn't fight it. I just lost it!
I just cannot imagine my own family being so insensitive not even think of our angel on Christmas. Nobody even mentioned it, nobody even asked if we were o.k. Not that I was looking for people to feel bad for me, I guess just acknowledge that we are hurting.
OK, I just needed to vent. Thanks for listening! Hope you all found peace this Christmas. LOTS OF LOVE TO YOU ALL! Kim
THEN, (this is the part that got me going) he went on to say how lucky each of us were to have no idea what it is like to feel a loss on Christmas. MEANWHILE... here it is, Christmas Day, supposed to be 37 weeks pregnant and getting ready to deliver. How soon people forget. It is like because my angel was never born, it wasn't a "real" loss to him. I couldn't fight it. I just lost it!
I just cannot imagine my own family being so insensitive not even think of our angel on Christmas. Nobody even mentioned it, nobody even asked if we were o.k. Not that I was looking for people to feel bad for me, I guess just acknowledge that we are hurting.
OK, I just needed to vent. Thanks for listening! Hope you all found peace this Christmas. LOTS OF LOVE TO YOU ALL! Kim
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