
Miscarriage Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.

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In Feb this yr I lost my baby at around 2 months. I didnt mean to get pregnant as I am only 20 years old, will be 21 in Feb but I love kids. I had just adjusted to knowing I was going to have a baby and I was happy. I hadnt told the father as he dumped me in Jan that yr. I lost the baby around the 2nd week of Feb and I still feel so much pain. I dont understand what happened. But I understand it probably happened for a reason, I just want to know what the reason was.
I see people with babies all the time and it breaks my heart because I wanted him/her so badly. This past weekend I finally told the would be father about everything. He was shoocked and cried a little. But I couldnt go through it alone anymore. I feel a bit better now that he knows but know the one yr mark is coming is breaking my heart.
Any ideas on how I can make it through this rough time?
I see people with babies all the time and it breaks my heart because I wanted him/her so badly. This past weekend I finally told the would be father about everything. He was shoocked and cried a little. But I couldnt go through it alone anymore. I feel a bit better now that he knows but know the one yr mark is coming is breaking my heart.
Any ideas on how I can make it through this rough time?
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