Ok I know that this subject is directly related to m/c but since I have been in this support group I feel like it's all I have. I really need some help and this is so serious. About 2 weeks ago my now psycho boyfriend watched the movie the secret. One of his clients at his job lent it to him to watch. After he watched the movie she decided to go out and buy him a book that tells the movie. I don't know how else to put it but the book is evil and so is everything in it. It is like comparing him to jack nicholsen in the shining. He just finished the book last night and for the past 2 weeks every so slowly he has been changing. He has been cold, non responsive, mean, heartless, insensitive and is preaching about all this positive bs. Don't get me wrong, I would love to be positive and all but it's kind of hard when everything keeps going wrong one thing after another. I don't know what to do. It just came to me last night as I was there sitting on the couch and thinking about how unhappy I am with this person and then there it was I thought "omg it's the book". I don't know what to do, of course I tried telling him that I want to burn the book but he is not going for it. I honestly feel uncomfortable in his presencea and I don't want to feel like that I really don't but I don't know what else to do. It's like I look at him and there is nothing in his eyes ever since he read that book and to top it all off he actually took notes throughout the whole book, went on to my laptop and typed all his "notes' up. OMG what do I do, I mean after everything with the m/c I have to deal with this crap. I just don't know what to do I was actually planning to have a baby with this person and get engaged but how can i think positive when I dont even know the person anymore? Please help me ladies
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