Miscarriage Support Group

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Help !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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About a year ago I had a miscarriage and ever since i have found it hard to look at children and babies.

I am not coping very well with my loss and my boyfriend wants a baby!

I dont know who to cope !

Help !!!!!!!
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You've come to the right place.

Truth is, I don't know how to cope either. But there are a lot of amazing women here working on doing this, day by day. For me, it just helps to realize that I'm not alone.
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Before you commit yourself to trying again, you have to come to terms with the first loss and truly heal yourself. May I suggest a grief counselor? I have been through this myself, and once I went through counseling, I was finally healed enough to try again. If the pain is still so fresh, you might want to talk to your boyfriend and let him know that the subject is still a bit hard for you. Your time will come, but I believe we all must truly heal before we can move on and resume "normal" life :) I wish you all the best, and if you ever need to talk, I am here for you!
Lots of love and support,
Mahadra
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