Miscarriage Support Group
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I have off the entire week off, and went up to NY this past weekend for a great weekend. We celebrated my uncle's 25th year of being ordained a priest and had a bridal shower for my sister.
Well, I came home yesterday b/c we've been doing basal temperature and charting and all that stupid stuff and yesterday was supposed to be "the day". And nothing happened. I come home when I could have been enjoying myself in NY and-------no BD on my most fertile day or even leading up to it. He didn't even hug or kiss me when I came in the door or ask how my trip was. Or even tell me he loved me and missed me.
He said he wanted to try. He still said that last night. But none of the BD was done. We only BD on average 4X a month, and it frustrates me because you are most fertile for 3 months after a D&C (which I had for the miscarriage), and well I'm coming up on my 3 month time frame. And any OB-GYN is going to look at my chart and just tell me to have sex more often before we get concerned.
So, I got a little frustrated when it was obvious his only agenda was falling asleep last night. I tried to talk to him about our lack of BD'ing, but he doesn't see it as a problem This is not a new problem either. I've always wanted more BD'ing than him. On average, we only BD 4X a month!
I'm seriously depressed. Cried all night. I don't get it. I cut my trip short to just come home and have that conversation since the reason why I came home was so we could BD, and then it doesn't happen and I just feel like crap.
I'm depressed. I'm anxious. I'm scared. I don't like where this is going.
I don't know what to do! Any thoughts or suggestions ladies? Any one else been through this?
Well, I came home yesterday b/c we've been doing basal temperature and charting and all that stupid stuff and yesterday was supposed to be "the day". And nothing happened. I come home when I could have been enjoying myself in NY and-------no BD on my most fertile day or even leading up to it. He didn't even hug or kiss me when I came in the door or ask how my trip was. Or even tell me he loved me and missed me.
He said he wanted to try. He still said that last night. But none of the BD was done. We only BD on average 4X a month, and it frustrates me because you are most fertile for 3 months after a D&C (which I had for the miscarriage), and well I'm coming up on my 3 month time frame. And any OB-GYN is going to look at my chart and just tell me to have sex more often before we get concerned.
So, I got a little frustrated when it was obvious his only agenda was falling asleep last night. I tried to talk to him about our lack of BD'ing, but he doesn't see it as a problem This is not a new problem either. I've always wanted more BD'ing than him. On average, we only BD 4X a month!
I'm seriously depressed. Cried all night. I don't get it. I cut my trip short to just come home and have that conversation since the reason why I came home was so we could BD, and then it doesn't happen and I just feel like crap.
I'm depressed. I'm anxious. I'm scared. I don't like where this is going.
I don't know what to do! Any thoughts or suggestions ladies? Any one else been through this?
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
And I daresay your frequency probably isn't too unusual, either. At least, not for us. ;-)
Yeah. I don't think he's aware of just how difficult it is to get pregnant because it happened to us by accident the first time.