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what should I do

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One of my very good friends baby shower is approaching (dec 2). I want to go but I am afraid I will breakdown and cry. I don't want to upset her, but I still am very upset from my loss Sept 28th. Should I try and go?? What should I tell her if I decide not to go. I do not want her to think I am jealous. I just wish it could be me having a baby shower.
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I am kind of in the same boat. My dear friend is pregnant and we were due around the same time. I plan on attending her shower and even helping out with it. She introduced me to this site and has been just a great friend to me.

I know I will probably go into the bathroom and cry or cry in the car, but I'm happy for my friend and I'm happy she is having a baby. But I'll still hurt and I admit I am jealous because I want to be pregnant too.
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Baby showers are very hard adn it is still very soon after your loss. I did not go to a friend's shower 2 months after my miscarriage and she understood. I went to a babyshower at work, and I left in tears, so make sure you are ready.
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