Hello~ A friend had recommended this site to me to help me deal with the loss & she said it was a great place to get info from others who went through or are going through the same thing. Well my story goes I miscarried the first time around Oct of last year. It was around 5-6wks & I waited a year & tried to get pregnant again. It worked & this time we were expecting twins. Everything was going great until the 6wk mark & I had miscarried again. A week prior I had complained of some abdominal pain & some spotting. They brought me in & checked my cervix & it was closed which was a good sign at the time. They also did the vaginal ultrasound & saw the 2 babies were still there. So they prescribed me some hydrocodone for the pain. When my pap results came back they were normal but I had a bacterial infection which they could not treat until i was 12 wks in. 5 days later i knew something was wrong & i was having a miscarriage again. I just thought it was wierd because my midwife never got any bloodwork or tests for my 2nd pregnancy & i was considered high risk bc of the previous miscarriage & i was pregnant with twins.I also have a fibrotic cyst above my uterus (that has gotten bigger) that i've always been concerned with but they said it wasn't a problem. I want to get another opinion on that. We want to try again but I want to know what is wrong before I try to get pregnant again so I don't miscarry at 6wks again. It's a big blow to us especially this close to Christmas. It's going to be hard to face everyone.One positive thing that came out of this is I realized I had a lot of support from friends & family. I hope to learn a lot from everyone on this discussion board too.
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