Miscarriage Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.
I had two miscarriages this summer. For the first, I had a D&C. The second was soon after. I was sad, but I am a strong, confident person and pulled myself up by my bootstraps. I recently found out that I have remnants of the first pregnancy still in my uterine lining, and I need to get a D&C in order to remove it. Otherwise, if I get pregnant again, the baby may have a hard time implanting. This news has made me so sad.... it has made me feel like there is still a portion of that baby still within me. I am feeling so depressed, and somewhat crazy, bc this is not me at all to be this way. I miss the baby I lost... the first one in particular. My husband has been supportive, but he does not fully understand. I have a hard time talking about it to anyone, bc I am not used to being vulnerable and sad. I have no kids, and all of my closest frieds do-- I am 37. I do not know what to do with my grief. :(
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
Since my miscarriage and D&C in Aug., nothing has been the same. It is very difficult for people who haven't experienced this kind of loss to understand. It's the same with my husband. He hadn't bonded with this pregnancy before we lost it. I think it is inevitable that the experience is different for men. I often have to tell him if I'm struggling with it. Don't be afraid to tell him what you need.
Something else that has helped me is going to a professional psychologist for the first time in my life. I was lucky to find someone who specializes in fertility issues, but a therapist who specializes in loss/grief should be able to help too.
I will be thinking of you.