Miscarriage Support Group

This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.

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1 Week ago

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Its been 1 week since I lost my baby, I still find it hard to believe, like I have to keep reminding myself that i'm not pregnant anymore- that all the happiness i felt is now transformed into despair. I'm reminded again and again of my loss- everytime i use the restroom and see blood, the maternity clothes hanging in my closet, the person at work who asked if my morning sickness was gone- the pain just seems to beat me over the head. My husband seems completely fine and normal- even starting a fight this morning (of all mornings!) about money and bills. I don't know how to get over this....i know its only been a week, but it seems like it will never end.
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Sorry for your loss and hope everything gets better.
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I know how you feel. I had to hide all my maternity clothes. I am still bleeding from my d and c. Our husbands do not understand bc they did not carry the baby. You are still grieving and will be for a while. Some days will be good. Some will be bad. I am here if you need to talk.
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I am so sorry for your loss. It's been a week for me also since I lost my son. It's been very emotional. To top it off I have to speak to my OBGYN and I can't get anyone to return my phonecalls. So not only am I emotional but frustrated and my husband doesn't help either.

You are definitely in my thoughts!
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It's been about a month for my m/c.
My fiance and i went to the ER together.We were both devasted.
We are slowly starting to get back to normal whatever normal is though.
My fiance took time off because of me losing the baby and because of that he lost his job.
He has a job interview on monday which is a great thing though. SO things are looking up for us after all.
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I feel wha yor going through its also been a week for me and I feel like the pain just gets worst instead of better. Im so not ready to go back to work on monday...:(....I still look at my maternity clothes and cry..........and my boyfriend has gotten the strength to move on....I hope things get better soon...for me as well as for you...you are in my prayers....:)
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i am with you sister. i too am reminded everywhere i turn, and it's hard. i havent seen or heard a word from my boyfriend since i miscarried. know that you have support and love here.
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