It sounds like most of you have been blessed by wonderful military guys. My younger brother is a warrant officer in the army and he is my favorite sibling, and a great husband and father. However, my stbx husband is not. He is a major in the army - mostly a reservist for over 20 years and was activated 3 years ago. We have been together a total of 5 years, engaged for 3 and married for one. I put my life on hold for him while he was deployed - sent him packages, made the holidays he was home special, made sure to be available to get his calls twice a day (he is a logistician). All throughout our engagement he said he was saving his deployment pay to build us a new home when we got married. We finally married last December and it has been a nightmare. He has been physically, emotionally, and financially abusive. i quit a good job, left my home and friends and uprooted my kids to marry this guy and he has basically ruined my life. He locked me and my daughter out of the house for over 2 months last march - didn't call to find out how we were doing or send us a dime. I don't know anything about military life. I have no idea how to handle our divorce - this is the second time he has filed for divorce this year - this last time for revenge because he got arrested. Any help would be appreciated.
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