Hi, my name is Victoria and I live in Kansas. I grew up a Military Brat and when I moved out on my own I thought that part of my life was over. Now married, one of my husbands friends brought up the idea of joining the military and if one does something all 3 stooges do it. My husband and his two best friends joined in the buddy program. They were all 3 to go to basic together but the dumb ass that enlisted them was a mess up and has since been kicked of the military, and none of them get to go together. At first I was mad because I thought I was out of that, then the more I thought about it I knew that I love my husband and I will support him however I can. The first left Monday the second leaves in Jan and now my husband doesn't know when he is going because he is having probs with his hearing. I always said he couldn't hear very good and I didn't know if he would even make it through MEPS but the doc said he just passed. We were playing with our auto air guns and I was hiding and I was shooting him, he could feel it but could not hear where they were coming from, where I was hiding. And that scared the S*#t out of me. So he promised he would go to out doc, He did and failed the hearing test BAD. He was sent to a specialist and failed his test too. they gave him pills to take for 10 days and when that didn't help they put in tubes and he has to go back every month for a couple of months to see it that will help. I am back at square one now and feel, I don't know what I feel, I know I have to support him but at the same time I don't want him to go due to all of this. and part of me has a resentment against some part of the Army for letting him enlist when he can F#*king hear. Is that how bad we need people? And if they are going to let him join without hearing how well are they going to take care of him? I have never 2nd guessed the military they did wonders for my dad and my family growing up but now I am so scared and lost and I feel alone. His friend's wifes have kids to take of and someone to talk to, I don't I have had lost 3 babies. I don't know what to do, what to think.
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