Me and my boyfriend have been together almost ten months. we are going threw our second deployment soon and well everyone i talk to keeps telling me that our relationshep wont last. this last weekend i was up at the cabin with my mom her boyfriend and her boyfriend's son and his friends. they all know i have a boyfriend and asked where he was i said he was out on base. everyone besides my mom said that he should of been there and he could of been there if he wanted to. they said our relationship will not last because of the distance. are all people this ignorante? i just dont know how much more of this bashing i can take. i even get it from my family who really dislike people in the military. do not ask me why i have no clue. i believe that me and my boyfriend love eachother enough that we will be fine but the more i hear people talk the more and more i get hurt and it even hurts him. noone has met him besides my mom and she loves him to death. we have gotten into fights about how he thinks its unfair for me to wait for him and all because he hears in the background of the phone calls we make people saying stuff how do i stop them from being so negative? or do i just have to deal with it and suck it up?
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