I am going to be 45 in a couple of months. I have no desire to be in menopause (I know like I have a choice) or any desire to stop having children. I have found that most things that are commonly expereinced in this culture like hot flashes and night sweats, I have mostly avoided by not having caffine (major trigger for hot flashes) and other such things (yes this includes chocolate). But, that doesn't solve my not wanting to be in menopause yet, the desire to have more children. Oh I know some will say Im in the age range (this is true since 40-65 is the normal time frame) and I know some will say I can adopt, however, that is much more difficult when you hit mid 40's they don't like older parents. And yes, theres that old thing of I really do like having biological children. So, any ideas???
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