I have been dating this guy for more than a year. When I first met him he was already smoking but I didn't think it was as big a problem as it turned out. He lead me to believe that he was indifferent about smoking and that if he had it he would smoke it and if he didn't he wouldn't. I started noticing that this was not the case and that we couldn't do anything or go anywhere without him getting stoned first. I asked him about it and he got all defensive and said that it's not as bad as I make it out to be. He thinks that just because he can hold down a well-paid job everything is ok. He has expressed to me that he wants to stop because there are things he wants to accomplish such as starting his own business. However, I know he's not ready to stop and I'm just trying to get some advice as to how I can help or if I should just let him be.
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