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Best thing I did was remove myself from the people and situations where I smoked, looks like it would be very tough for you. Also I thought I would never quit and now am almost 20 days clean and actually doing really well. Best of luck to you.

Ron

I too smoked nearly daily for 10 years after 10 years of mostly recreational use. I hit bottom. My ex turned from pot to crack (turns out it was back to crack) and my world crumbled. I believed in God and realized I'd made pot my higher power, it was a major obsession/preoccupation for me. I abstained on my own for months at a time, I burried my bong with a note of all the negative things pot did to me and I did to people because of pot. I finally sought out Marijuana Anonymous online because I wanted to relate to sober potheads, I felt like no one else could understand me. I started attending online and then land meetings and I've been clean and sober ever since (clean over 3 years). I do it one day at a time. Yeah, I couldn't live with a smoking pothead, no way. I was done when I was done and God helped me get into situations where I wouldn't be tempted until I had the strength to resist. God met me more than halfway when I decided it just wasn't healthy for me and ulitimately spiritually it was a dark thing I didn't want to do to myself anymore, just speaking for me :).

I smoked for over 20 years now it's an occasional thing, I just lost the urger to after I was on coke for awhile

What happened that made me quit was when the guy who got it for me ripped me off. I was so mad but it taught me a lesson. I haven't smoked weed in a little over a year.

Make sure you want it. Really want it. It's the only way it works. You have to be willing to let go of all the ties that go along with it. If he's your man, he'll respect what you want to do, whether he's down or not. The least he can do is not do it around you, not leave it accessible to you.

I smoked for 8 years, straight, with the exception of about 7 days over those years...only two in a row. It's hard. It comes down to just really wanting better for yourself. You are worth it.

It may not seem like it, but there are other things to do out there. Lots of people do them. It's only day two of sobriety for me, and it's important to fill your days. You would be surprised all the energy that comes without smoking. The side effects are wonderful, or blissful, but they too shall pass.

One thing for certain, it's gonna be a lot harder to leave your mark on this world if your stoned all the time.

You say your not working, taking yourself out of your environment and getting stuck in to something else will help. Voluntary work or a job or back to college maybe, good luck and don't beat yourself over it i'm sure you will kick it when the time is right and when your ready.

i would love to quit been smoking it for best part of 8 years now. aside from a few odd days here and there and then get this when i quit for 2 weeks, i got ran over. i walked out in front of a car not even stoned. but as soon as i got out the hospital 5hours later i did have my biftas rolled for me. cause the pain it took away was amazing.

now again i find myself wanting to quit again. i did for 3 days and unfortunetly just tsrated again. i do work but i am at home alot of the time.

i have tryed most things but i just thought that the time would come and i would want to. but theres this part inside of me that says u dont want to. hmmmmmmmm

confused

Since the addiction is psychological, it has to come about through a change in mindset. If you convince yourself you don't need it, after a period of time you won't.

Because you're with your man and he doesn't want to quit, it's doubtful you ever will as long as you stay with him.