I have stopped complaining, why? Because I see the look on my families faces ...... "like oh here we go again". So I shut up about the pain and how down it makes me feel. Having Lupus makes me a non person people dont want to here about bad times so I keep it inside, and I know I will have to get used only sharing this with my rheumatologist. My husband is still supportive but his role has changed from partner to carer. I have no time for counselling as I have DS. But do any of you feel that you just have to keep your pain to your self to make people around you happy.
Needed to vent
Needed to vent
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