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What should I do?

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Hey Y'all!!!

Well I kinda gotta dilemma.
You see, I've been offered a really good job. Great hours, Great location and even better pay. My problem is SSI finally wants me to see their doctors and start the evaluation process. My dilemma is I don't wanna give up a great employment opportunity, but on the other hand physically I need to be on SSI. What should I do? What would you do if you were in my stilettos?
Hugs'n'Stuff
Niecy.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I would take the job.
Do you feel like you can work and do a good job?If so just think how nice and satifying that lupus has not got that yet.........Deb
deleted_user
deleted_user
agreed. i think if you feel you are capable of doing the job and your going to get better money then from ssi.. well i would take the job. keep what lupus hasnt taken yet. hold on tight to it. but if you dont think your going to be able to do the job, even if you can for a short time, it might not be worth it. so which is it, do you feel like you can, or do you think you arent able to do the job?
deleted_user
deleted_user
Right now, I feel like I can handle it. But in the future I know that I will need SSI, for long-term care. Thanks gals for all of your advice!!!
Hugs, Niecy.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Niecy I'm in the same position that you are in. Except I've beenon this job for 7rs. and my regionalwho is my old boss values me even thugh I do get sick.I work from home.But the pay isn't the same. I too I'm torn between whether or not I should retire. But like me I really do think that I can stay there, but my limitations have me in fear. I think you should pray about this before making any final decisions. Friends.....Belief Let God help you make this decision, because it is very touchie.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Go for it!! SS isn't going anywhere no matter what "they" say. Don't let this lupus stop you if you can help it. GOOD LUCK!!!
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And remember the more time you put in working the bigger your SSI check will be when you file for it later SOOOOO get in all the quarters you can now...Deb
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If you could hold off from taking SSI, I say go for it. Save the SSI for a "rainy day", medically speaking. Prior to my going on disability, I wanted my rheumy to put on track towards SSI, but she refused. It's a good thing because when the lupus affected my CNS, the disability benefits couldn't have come at the right time.
Lynr
Lynr
Hi Niecy,
Congrats on the job offer! Do you know your "new" boss? I ask this because my boss is very understanding about my medical condition and is supportive, it makes a world of a difference! There are times that I just can't make it through the day and need to go home to rest (and takes my stronger pain meds), would your boss, or new job, allow for this? Is there any possibility for flex-time (being able to work from home)? According to the HYPPA medical laws, employers dont have the right to question your medical condition and need to make the necessary accomodations for you. Check with the Human Resources Department and/or the Division of Labor in your area. Personally, I am trying to work as long as I can, I am in a better frame of mind when I am busy. My best to you girlfriend, keep us posted on whaat you decide. xoxoxoLyn
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