Well...I got the official dismissal from the girl I jumped way in over my head with into a sexual relationship. I even have some paranoia that she was using me to take her out to eat etc. Might be true. Might be unconscious on her part. But the draw to call up my new "friend with benefits" just to have someone to talk to and a shoulder to cry on is super strong. It feels a lot like quitting smoking or any other type of drug addiction. I know I need to be making friends right now and not lovers to break the codependency cycle. If someone could just give me a rallying cheer and tell me it will get easier with time that would be great.
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