i have a relationship that is a healthy and positive one. right now i have difficulties accepting his refusal to be intimate with me and not take it personally. he seldom "wants" to except for maybe like 2 times a week and that is insufficient for MY needs. i have let him know and then he feels like he has to "perform" or he is there for me sexually when i need it but not intercourse and then foreplay is hurried through and i can tell he would rather not be doing this for me. so then i feel rejection and depression and try even harder to get him to want to. hardly the way to go about things isn't it? so then to me it feels as if he doesn't love me when i know that he does. what do you think my reaction should be and how do i handle this? thank you
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