I lost my father in 1998 to cancer and I just lost my mother last year in the summer suddenly. She died suddenly with no sign. I am the only child of the trio. I am involved in a relationship with someone whom I am debating whether I let him go or continue the relationship with him. We have been in a relationship for four years and we are supposed to be getting married; BUT by him being the only child and grandson himself, his 91-year-old grandmother needs him to do everything for her. To me, that is like creating a big wall between me and my boyfriend. He is so busy that he barely has time for me but he wants me in his life forever. He says that he hasn't block out the marriage and/or wedding bells with me. When my mother died, he moved in with him. Three months later, I had to move back because there is no space in his house for 3 grown-ups to stay. So, I had to move back home. He is not happy for the fact that he has to take care of her either. His mother is also deceased. Our communication is somewhat okay. We texted each other so much. Now, we can hardly communicate with each other because his phone service is so jacked up I barely get his texts and he can't get my texts. I try calling him but he doesn't answer the phone and it has been like that since day one. I know and understand the fact that he has to take care of his grandmother. He was there for me when my mother passed away. I feel so lonely that I cry just about every night. Sometimes I wished my mother is still living. I need help coping with this situation. Sometimes I wonder if our relationship will survive.
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