I am new here, Im here because I have absolutely no female friends. I have never been good at making them ever since my best friend many years ago hurt me badly. I do not want to continue to burden my wonderful husband with the constant conflicy between my mother and I and the deep ongoing pain that I am dealing with regarding my mother, and family. I have a lot of unresolved pain and hurt regarding things that have happened to me in the past regarding abuse, abandonment etc,,. I have no one to confide in. No one to really talk to. Therapy doesnt help. I just need one good female friend that I can trust, and confide in, and share with, and listen to each other , help each other and comfort each other in a way that only a good female friend can, I want a real friend, a friend that is caring, attentive, supportive, and willing to listen to take the time to get to know me, and is patient enoug to listen to my problems, and to let me vent, and just be there for me when I need her, as I will be for her. I have tried these online support groups before, and it seems people spread themselves so thin talking to so many people., that no one ever took the time to really get to know ME. .....Looking or even just ONE good friend... is there anyone out there looking for the same?
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