I am not sure if this is the right group. My boyfriend and I have been together 10 1/2 years. I feel like we are not emotionally connecting anymore. There is a glimmer of connection but, it is thin. We used to click. He saw my needs and I saw his. Now I get almost nothing. He has no interest in the things I do and doesn't really talk to me. He says he loves me but, he doesn't show it. I have been without sex for 3 months now. It is both of our faults. He has a premutre problem. Sex is fast and often unsatsifying. Sometimes we find other ways to be satisfied. I want good sex. We used to have it. Now I often think about cheating but, don't. Whenever I try to talk about this problem, he doesn't want to. I feel sooner or later we are doomed. What should I do? I don't want to lose this relationship.
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