Wow, I can't believe what is happening. I ran into an old flame (we dated for three years and then I left to live overseas) after 28 year. We hung out (I ran into him at a night club) and talked about the past.. it was all good. He asked for my number, he never called. I went back to the club three weeks later (yes I wanted to see him again). There he was, it almost felt like he was waiting for me. His face was full of joy. Well we were at the club for about 1/2 hour, he invited me to his house for "coffee". We ended up exactly where we left off... in bed. I don't expect anything from this relationship, I am not ready for any kind of committment. But I don't want us to fall into "hooking up" at a night club. I am 52 and he is 54. What to do? What to do?
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