Ive been divorced for almost nine months, before that we were seperated for 2 years and married for 6. I have known my ex for 8 years when we seperated. Now hes in colorado and my daughter misses him. everyday I hear how much she misses him and wants him to come back and in realtiy i dont think he ever will. Im the one dealing with counseling for myself so i can learn how to handle my stress and emotuions, my daughter is in intensive home therapy four days a week. She doesnt listen to me and im having a hard time being a single parent and learning how to cope with this divorce. I lied to myself saying that i was happy but in a way im glad i left him but i didnt picture my life like this. So while im dealing with my daughter behavior problems with therapy for her and therapy for me. hes in colorado living with his gf and planmning on getting married!! Divorce wasnt final til three months ago. I need all the support i can get or maybe someone to listen to me or if anyone went through the same thing i am going through. Im at my wits end and feel like i have no where to turn. I do have family but they got issues too and i cant keep putting all this stress on them. I nneed ideas on how to deal with this if anyone can please help.
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