My ex and I were on fairly civil terms until I finally bought myself a house instead of renting and until he for himself a more permanent girlfriend. I suppose he finally realized I wasn't coming back. We went from talking everyday, even as divorced, to hating each other. He's known the woman a month and a half and they are now living together. She doesn't have custody of her own children which terrifies me. He has done some fairly irresponsible things were the children are concerned and has ignored all my concerns mocking it and saying he can parent whatever way he wants. Our children are very young and I don't deem that to be true. They need stability and routine. Our agreement never outlined access so I went to a lawyer to have something more structured put in place. His current job requires me to be flexible as I have always been, but it's starting to show in the children. The papers from the lawyer have made him angry and it is gotten very ugly. He claims he's getting a new job and he is going to fight to have the children half time. I will literally fall apart if that happens. I am terrified. I did not think my life would be here.
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