Ok I've met this very interesting guy. We've talked quite a bit by e-mail and phone met a few times. We have a lot in common---same age and stage in life. We are go places do things people, we like to cook, we love pets and even watch the same kind of TV. Even religiously we are similar. The chemistry was there big time. Let me preface this that the last time I felt chemistry was a year ago! (I've been separated 2 yrs divorced for 9 months). Well I couldn't resist and I fell off the wagon. It's been the best experience of my life but as things wear on I know I'm just not casual dating material. I want and need all the other stuff...ie monogamy, emotional intimacy ..... I need to have the conversation. I'm miserable because I don't want to hear the rejection and I'm living with my post marriage triggers (those evasive things people do when they could be potentially seeing another too). I have no confirmation but I have no agreement on the things that would make me comfortable being sexual either. I guess I'm human but I'm really wish I was stronger against the chemistry. Ugh I'm old enough to know better ...
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