My divorce was final 9/23/08 and I relocated to Az and the ex is in Wa with his gf. He has pulled so much crap and has no contact with our two minor children and has succeeded in turning our grown children against me to a point. I have so much anger and bitterness, losing my house, lifestyle, dreams I guess. I am struggling financially (thank goodness for my mom) we have a house on the market that we can't sell and now are two months behind on and he pays nothing for cs or maintenance. He is self employed so hides his income. today I found out he was arrested for domestic violence in Dec(he's an alcoholic)against gf and I talked to him on phone and I felt sad, happy alot of emotions but realized I am over him and I really feel sorry for him is this normal? Could this be the start of the healing process? Has anyone encountered this? I also struggle with being alone and worry will I ever meet someone? please tell me I'm not crazy(he did for years) sorry to ramble!!
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