I'm thinking that I'm not alone here. I have friends that maintain a friendship w/my Ex and with me (so both of us). Then, I have friends that have adopted only me as a friend and others that have adopted him only as a friend. It's hard sometimes and I struggle with feelings around this. I miss some of my old friends and at the same time, I wonder were they really that great of friends to begin with that they would disown me due to my divorce?! My Ex and I are friends and shouldn't that tell them something? I don't know why I waste one ounce of thought on this as life is too short to worry about this sort of thing; I just didn't expect some of the changes that have happened and would like to learn to not care about those friends that I have seemingly lost. I don't get it. Can you relate to this? If so, how do you just get past it and not take it to heart?
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When nobody is interested, aloneness is the only path available. Online if you don't look like, or are, a celebrity or model, forget it. Time passes but nothing changes.