I am just so upset about this. Although we have been separated for 3 years our divorce was only final 8 weeks ago. We actually tried to reconcile a little over a year ago and he had told me that this woman would never be part of his or the kids life no matter what happened between us. Two nights ago he told our 3 children that they were going to have a brother! He is 52 will be 53 when this child is born. She is 27! There is no talk of marriage which totally bothers me as we have 3 children including a 14 yo daughter who we have taught safe sex waiting etc. She actually told me her Dad is a hypocrite. I also am jealous. I really loved him and never wanted the divorce. I wanted another child (before our issues started) and he refused to have one with me. I am angry that I who love children am alone and with no real chance of ever having another baby and he who left our marriage because he liked his freedom and really didn't want to be married any more gets another child. I was really feeling content and that I was comint to terms with my new life and now this. I feel like I have been dragged back down in some ways...
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