My ex and I have just recently separated. We now live 2,300 miles away from each other. I told him I needed to have space and not talk for a few months. He insisted that this would be a bad idea. We both agreed to remain friends because we really still care for each other. I just know that talking to him only makes me second guess my decision to finally end this. He has been unfaithful 4 times that I know of, the last time was just last month. I finally conceded to speaking to him on Friday and he said we would talk on Saturday. He then failed to call me on Saturday and still hasn't called today (he doesn't have a number I can reach him at, he has to call me from a friends house, which is never an issue). I feel like he manipulated me into agreeing to talk to him to just boost his confidence in the level of control he has over me. I think I should refuse to speak with him whenever he does finally call me (we don't have kids, so we don't HAVE to talk). Is my jerky ex screwing with my head???
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