hi...i am new to this website but so glad I found it. I am 47 and have been divorced for 6 yrs. I have dated some and had some relationships but now I find that my life is work, sleep, work, sleep with tons of house work thrown in and if there is any time leftover I try to spend it with my family. i am thankful for my job so that is not the problem--it is just after working and then going home to chores i need to do, laundry etc,, there isn' t alot of time or energy to go out, meet others or do much else. I am not into "going out there" to meet someone at the night spots etc. I know of one girl that goes to wine tastings, jazz festivals, is in a running club, etc so has no trouble meeting people but that really isn't me. There are church groups i could join.. and i keep thinking i will volunteer on wkends helping with animals some way. Just keeping up with work and all i have to handle in life really is exhausting, I miss having gal pals to hang out with too but seems there is so little time. and most of the friends i know are married so after working full time they tend to spend time with spouse and family etc. Is anyone else finding they are in a rut and stuck just taking care of work and the necessary things? what small steps did you take to get out there and enrich your life?
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