I was married almost 16 years and never dated much in college. When I married my ex husband we did not date long. Now, here I am at 41 years old and know NOTHING about dating and how to just relax. I seem to always be in search of a new love. I am tired of that and realize that I need to just take it slow. I guess I am confused about committment and loyality etc. I think I give to much in relationships. I dont want to seem cold or uncaring but I dont want to be a push over or fool either. Does anyone else struggle with this and do you have any suggestions?
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