I am a 41 year old man that recently have been telling lies. This problem has come on since I married My wife, now three years. My wife and I own a small company for which has been making a profit, but has very serious cash flow problems. I have been lying to my wife as to the status of our company to try and protect her from the bad news of the cash flow problems. I also lied to her about a incident that occured outside of work. ( i just didnt tell her about it) She found out from a mutual friend that read an artical in the paper about it. She now has found out about more lies about the company and has asked me about it and i lied some more. For fear that she will divorce me. of course I made the situation worse by lying again. I called and made an appointment to see a psychologist about my problem to try and help my problem and to try and save my marrage. But while talking about us my wife said to me that she has never been so miserable in her life even when she was going through her divorce with her first husband. I felt like whale shit! the lowest i have ever felt in my life. I feel as if my entire world around me is crubling. Just a short time ago I was on top of the world because I finaly found someone to share my life with. Now doomed for divorce and sentenced to a life by myself.
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