
Lesbian Relationship Challenges Support Group
This community is for those who are in a gay marriage, and the unique challenges that may be had in a same-sex relationship. Find support and talk to others in a same-sex marriage, and get advice from the experiences of other members.

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hello, i'm new to this community. litterally joined 7 minutes ago...though i should have a while ago.
so there have been recent complications in our relationship. we went through a period of just pure drama and bullshit...which colminated in a bit of a fight...though we dont really fight...we just kind of break down. we don't scream and yell at eachother. what we call "fights" are more sad than angery.
long story short, the "fight" healed us, and we called of the drama. we did NOT have makeup sex, and we have not had sex or tried to since. we tried tonight and its like we're blocked. its like we don't know what to do and i'm terrified of this going on...this "dry spell" is unhealthy and it hurts like hell.
so there have been recent complications in our relationship. we went through a period of just pure drama and bullshit...which colminated in a bit of a fight...though we dont really fight...we just kind of break down. we don't scream and yell at eachother. what we call "fights" are more sad than angery.
long story short, the "fight" healed us, and we called of the drama. we did NOT have makeup sex, and we have not had sex or tried to since. we tried tonight and its like we're blocked. its like we don't know what to do and i'm terrified of this going on...this "dry spell" is unhealthy and it hurts like hell.
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sometimes you have to realize that one or both of you just aren't in the mood... & thats okay. just appreciate other aspects of your relationship when ur not into "it".
and before you have sex, try to work out all of your issues with each other. if your distracted by last nights or maybe even last weeks fight, and your looking at ur girlfriend imagining what she said to you last week [which could have been emotionaly disturbing] how can you get ur head in sex? most of the time. you cant.. so yup. i hope that help you two avoid dry spells. =]
and by the way. i think i said this, but ur wrong, "sry spells" aren't unhealthy, they are just part of the challeges of a relationship. and relationships can hurt sometimes.
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