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When will the pain stop?

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I lost my life partner on September 18, 2007. We were together for 12 years. Raised a family together, loved and lived together, but when she died I had no part of her arrangements, not even the material things we shared. Her family came in took and looked over me all together.

I have nothing but pain. I have tears. I have a broken heart and I have emptiness. It seems as if everyone around me has moved passed her death. I have not, I can not.

All I want is to die. I want her, I want to be with her. I want to be with her. When will the pain stop.
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I can't imagine the pain you're going through. The fact that you hang on for the children is admirable. I know you want to be with her, but you still have work to do here. Do something in her memory. Maybe start a foundation or do something for the disease that took her life (you didn't say what she died from). Putting your pain into action might help sooth it. I'm sorry her family ignored you. It makes me so angry that we don't have the same rights as heteros. Maybe you could do something about that. Put your grief into action and you'll feel better. Plus, you have the kids. Stay here with us and we'll help you through it. HUGS
peace, teresa
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I can't imagine the pain you're going through. The fact that you hang on for the children is admirable. I know you want to be with her, but you still have work to do here. Do something in her memory. Maybe start a foundation or do something for the disease that took her life (you didn't say what she died from). Putting your pain into action might help sooth it. I'm sorry her family ignored you. It makes me so angry that we don't have the same rights as heteros. Maybe you could do something about that. Put your grief into action and you'll feel better. Plus, you have the kids. Stay here with us and we'll help you through it. HUGS
peace, teresa
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My Wanda was taken by a heart attack. Several days before her death, we dicussed how heart disease is different in men, the symthoms are not the same. Heart disease was part of family history.

Last month I started a memory-of website for her its: wanda-williams-loving.memory-of.com

Also plan to fight for same sex insurance. I was the bread winner, however i couldn't add her to my plan. We had to pay for office visit and RX.

I still love her and I guess I always will.
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