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what do you think?

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i just came out as bi to my mom a few days ago, and she was pretty understanding. but she said that she's known me all my life, and that i was always boy crazy (which is true, i guess) and that lesbians have always known their whole lives. she said that right now i'm "asexual" because i haven't had enough experience yet to tell my sexual orientation.
i didn't get my first crush on a girl until freshman year of high school, and i never suspected i might be gay until then. i didn't fully acknowledge it until i was 17. do you think i'm just confused? i can't believe that these feelings aren't real, but i haven't "always known" like a lot of other people say. i don't want to tell my mom my confusion, because it will just give her more fuel. is it possible to not have an inkling of your sexuality until high school?
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How about until you are 45? ;)
consider yourself blessed!
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someday you'll know. As my ex-husband says, "he is proud he was married to a lesbian"
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Since you come into your sexuality when you're a teenager (true for boys or girls) you don't know ANYTHING until you're in high school. It's true, some of us knew since we were little, but I didn't know till I was 19 that I was attracted to women. It's normal to feel confused. It's also 'normal' to be bi. You don't need to share with your mum that you have confusion. Just go with the flow and see how you feel after you've had some experience. You may find after some experience that you like one or the other better. Or, you may be bi all your life (I am). Just don't be so hard on yourself to make choices.
peace, teresa
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