
Lesbian Relationship Challenges Support Group
This community is for those who are in a gay marriage, and the unique challenges that may be had in a same-sex relationship. Find support and talk to others in a same-sex marriage, and get advice from the experiences of other members.

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when im with my girlfriend of 14 months... i know i love her and want her... but were apart most of the time and i find myself wanting other people when were not together... i dont know what to do...i love her and she loves me.. shes just so shy and shallow sometimes...

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Maybe you are not ready for any big commitment. I would ask myself, what do i mean by she is "shallow" sometimes. Bye your picture you are both young and maybe more time is needed. My best help would be to suggest that you ask yourself this questions, "what character traits can I live with or need to live without?" Main point here is know yourself and choose a partner/lover who best fits your needs, desires, wants and even life goals.

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You are young. You dont need to "know" if she is the one and you dont need to make any big commitments either. Be young and enjoy your freedom to explore yourself thru different kinds of friendships and lovers!
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