Lesbian Relationship Challenges Support Group
This community is for those who are in a gay marriage, and the unique challenges that may be had in a same-sex relationship. Find support and talk to others in a same-sex marriage, and get advice from the experiences of other members.
okay, I was involved in a relationship with this girl, and it was great... but we're not together anymore, and I can't seem to get her out of my head... I've tried everything I can think of, but nothing helps... I realize that things are over between us, but I just... I don't know... look, if anyone has a suggestion for me... I'll be glad to hear it...
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I miss traveling with my husband. Has anyone found a specific site regarding cruising for widow/widowers or any sightseeing trips. Not interested in being with couples and kids,,,I realize a cruise ship will have a portion size of families and couples, but perhaps they also put together a part of the cruise ship for groups of widows/widowers????
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A friend sent this to me..As far as I can see, grief will never truly end.It may become softer overtime, more gentleand some days will feel sharp.But grief will last as long as Love does - ForeverIt's simply the way the absence of your loved onemanifests in your heart. A deep longing accompaniedby the deepest Love some days. The heavy fog mayreturn and the next day, it may recede.Once again, it's...
I know it's lame but sadly, it's also the truth and sometimes the truth is lame. It sucks, I know, we've all been there.
All I can tell you is try to stay busy, hang with friends who love and support you and when you feel sad, angry, wistful about the the loss of the relationship, don't deny or ignore the feelings. Let them run thier course and be with them as they happen. It will get better, it's just that no one can say for certain when.
Peace, Spears... And remember be kind and be patient with yourself.
BG
Beastys rite, time plays a big part...L8r down the road ul look bac & b like "what tha? Puh! my mind was so crazy & jumbled some odd months ago & now I can think clearly again...SWEET!" & ul probly try 2 bac track the exact moment when u felt the pressure lift, but u just wont b able 2 put ur finger on it...time just has a way of makin things better.....like alcohol. Lol.
And, yeah, u shud stay busy, but dont stay in a stupor thinkin ur gona "ease some pain" or "make urself feel better" cuz sister it aint gona work & its always gona catch up with u. Ben there, done that & Ive learned that its better 2 face reality....get mad if i have 2....and get the hell over it as my regular bitch-ass self, instead of walkin around in a stupor, deluding myself that "this is workin 4 now". Ur peace will come, but not without u taking control first. Good Luck....it'l get better.