Hey- some time back I (late Nov.) posted asking for advice. My post was "what do I do now" and was about just coming out of many years and reaching out to a woman, who briefly took my hand only to reject me in an unkind and rude manner. I received excellent advice and finally, yesterday, we saw each other again at the +50 lesbian pot luck. I was worried about how to behavior or what to do or say. We'll long story short all your advice made my meeting this woman work out just fine. I decided (but my heart want retalliation) to be civil, but not speak to her unless she spoke to me. Well it went great, she did speak to me commenting me on my new sweater (it was my BEST) and I briefly looked at her and said thank you. She started to say something else and I just went on to table for refill of that delecious food. Bottom line is that I felt good with how I handled the situation. So, Thank you all!
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