iam a 35 year old gay women in a relationship for 2 years.the problem is my girlfriend is very jelous (please excuse all spelling lol) and lacking in the trust department. the only issue we have is me being friends with another gay women. my gf seams to think b/c she is my first gay relationship (i came out late) that she is only my comming out relationship.she is always affraid iam going to find someone else. i met a gay women in AA who i have a lot in common with and we started a frienship, (she had a gf at the time)i dont want to sleep with this women nor does she with me. my g/f is obssesed with the thoughts of us talking behind her back all the time. there are only issues with me being friends with gay women no one else.iam a very comited person in my relationships iam not the cheating kind. iwas just looking to someone to talk to that i could relate to as far as me comming out so late in life. i feel like a prsoner and that i have to walk on egg shells around my gf constently hoping this friend of mine doesnt text me when my gf is home or it becomes a blow out!she has even gone so far as to go through my phone twice! my gf went to a therapist but that didnt seem to work for her. any suggestions on what to do about this? i cant live my life like she does, always projecting about tomorrow and playing the fucking "what IF game". anyways sorry to ramble. thanks for reading
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