Ive been in a relationship for 6 1/2 years and I fear we are becoming more like friends than anything else. We have sex about once every 2-3 months, and there is very little affection left in the relationship. In no way do I want to end it, we are still very much in love. I just dont know what to do to get things back to a state of affection and, well, to be cheesy, romance. I lay awake at night thinking about all these "what-ifs" involving relationships in my past. I feel so much guilt for even thinking these thoughts that I usually just end up crying and beating myself up. My girlfriend is totally committed to the relationship, but it just feels like were best friends at this point. I dont know what to do anymore.
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