Lesbian Relationship Challenges Support Group
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Urgent!! I had sex with a boy last night!! and i liked it!!! :(
I'm having a major identity crisis. This is horrrrrrrible!!! I don't know what to do. i was finally coming to grips with the fact that I'm gay and now I go and do this. What is going on?????? advice, please!!!
I'm having a major identity crisis. This is horrrrrrrible!!! I don't know what to do. i was finally coming to grips with the fact that I'm gay and now I go and do this. What is going on?????? advice, please!!!
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
Its a long process for many of us. Our personal identity is not always solved quickly or as B & W for some. Counseling is helpful for many. Support groups also. Good luck, Jess
It really all can get pretty confusing.
First of all, experimentation at a young age is pretty common. Just be careful and safe, ok?
Oceanamoon brings up some good points. I'd like to reinforce that just because you have sex w/a guy doesn't make you straight, and just because you have sex w/a girl (or womyn) doesn't automatically mean you're lesbian/gay.
Ultimately, you'll be the only one to figure out what's going on, Hon, but like oceana says, you may not be lesbian, or straight but bisexual.
But right now, just having sex w/a boy last night, it's not like you immediately have to decide 'what" you are right now! Be yourself, go w/the flow. Be safe and careful and enjoy what comes your way.
As you grow and mature and things begin to fall more and more into place, you may find yourself drawn more to guys or more to girls.
that's going to give you a clearer idea of "what's going on?" - the question you are asking tonight.
Does any of this make sense to you? Just don't panic and feel like you have to have everything figured out at this point in life, because you most certainly do NOT!!
Love yourself just as you are. Be good to yourself. enjoy your life and all of it's experiences. Let life be good to you.
You sound like an awesome girl, and I promise you'll be ok w/all of this.
Hugs,
Trish
Hey, sex is sex!
Try having a relationship with one. You'll come back to us... ;)
Give me, my soft butch anyday! wow! Talk about heat!