My girlfriend and i have been back together for about a month now. we dated on and off in high school...totaling about 2 years on and off. i am just coming out of a marriage...we have been separated for a little over a month. my g/f and i have very good communication about everything, but because of things that happened in my relationship with my soon to be ex husband, i am noticing that there are things that may or may not get in the way of my relationship with my g/f. for example..... my ex used to fidget all the time when i was trying to have a serious conversation with him...and i never felt that he was paying attention to me. my g/f has ADHD, and she fidgets as well. even though i know she is paying attention to me, and that she is listening to me while i talk to her, i still tend to feel like she isn't. we recently talked about both of us getting back into therapy...seperatly for our own issues so that problems from past relationships don't cause problems for us together. i guess what i'm asking is what do you think about all this? and would getting back into therapy help us?
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