I've been w/my gf a lil over 6months. I was w/a woman for 6yrs. before, but this one's different. I never talked bout havin a family w/my ex, or felt like we'd be 2gether 4ever. I just always had a feelin it wouldn't last. I never came out while I was with her & even started datin men after we broke up. My current gf has changed me. Within weeks of datin....I came out to my family & friends. It was rough, but I didn't wana hide anymore. She makes me feel like no 1 else ever has! She's fantastic! I feel like I've found my LIFE partner. I have no kids, & have waited 4 the "right" 1 to come along before I do so. I feel she's the 1. The PROBLEM(S) are her kids. They're so jealous! They don't want us 2 have a baby 2gether. Now my gf has mentioned that maybe we should wait till the youngest turns at least 18 b4 having a baby! Does she understand how much that hurts me?! I want 2 wait a couple of yrs reguardless, but that's SEVEN yrs! I'm an adult....should I not hold a right 2 plan 4 a child without havin 2 put everythin on hold cuz she wants to stay "the baby of the family"?! It makes me feel like I'm supposed to help take care of her kids & be happy with that & not worry bout wantin to have 1 of my own. Do I make any sense here? I take care of them as if they were my own, but they are disrespectful, break things, steal things...MY THINGS, some of which I still haven't gotten back! They make me feel like a jack ass for even trying to be good to them. I just found out a shirt of mine is missing now, and what urks me the most is there's nothing I can do about it!!!! They just say they don't know anything bout it & hide it at a friend's house or something! I only get to see my gf & the kids on wkends....we are not financially stable enough right now to make a move 2gether. We always have plans w/the kids & take them places, etc....but I can't even hug my gf without the youngest (11yrs) pullin us apart, yellin, gettin in our faces. We can't even walk next 2 each other in public....the child literally walks on my heels....PHYSICALLY STEPPING ON THE BACKS OF MY FEET & clings to my arm 2 keep me from being next 2 her mother. I LOVE my gf, but this has got 2 stop! SOMEONE.....ANYONE PLEASE, I AM BEGGING YOU.....TELL ME HOW TO HANDLE THIS!
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