
Lesbian Relationship Challenges Support Group
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I met a girl on line years ago and fell in love moved in and got engaged. It ended badly 3 years into it but not due to the fact of how we met.
I have after being single a year found myself falling for bi friend that I also met online. I think it could work and I and she both are willing to give it a try.
For while until we decide what to do with my father (I am his care giver) I will have to do the travel thing - she has kids and so I would be the one doing the distance which is also fine.
Anyways as I babble on just curious if anyone else started their present or perhaps a past relationship on line and curious to know how it worked or how it is working out.
I have after being single a year found myself falling for bi friend that I also met online. I think it could work and I and she both are willing to give it a try.
For while until we decide what to do with my father (I am his care giver) I will have to do the travel thing - she has kids and so I would be the one doing the distance which is also fine.
Anyways as I babble on just curious if anyone else started their present or perhaps a past relationship on line and curious to know how it worked or how it is working out.
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I was the biggest skeptic on this issue until it happened to myself. NOw I am trying to figure out the how and the why.
Why do I feel this way? HOw can this work?
Then I feel robbed because I cant do what I want. How do you deal with your feelings that you want to be the one that is there for them when maybe things arent going well and maybe wanting them with you because your day or your night is not right? It is very hard and very complicated.
The one thing is that it forces the issue of communication immediately and that is an issue that lots of couples struggle with and I believe is key for a strong foundation.
Ask me this question before and i would have said run like deer thru forest but not anymore. If I could change any of it I would.
I am not someone that can sit back and listen to things happen and know that someone that I could possibly love someday is hurting or doing whatever it is. Even the good times, who would not want to be there?
The one on one is important as is the intimacy in the relationship and where do you draw the line. What becomes a priority and what plays second fiddle?
Hell, I dont even know how to play the fiddle.
Any ideas on any of this complicated issue?
Dont mean to take your soap box away, but Im open for any and all suggestions.
Sorry ladies didn't mean to take your spot light. I apologize.
i have never "met" anyone on line (that is, emailed with and then met, in that order), but a long time ago, my heroin- and coke-addicted neighbor met someone (straight) and they were married in 6 months! The guy was from England. She was a scary neighbor, I tell ya. Once, I joined her in her habit. yikes. no thank you!
now this is babbling!
I think it can work, but you have to acknowledge that, at some point, one of you is going to have to relocate. Then the decision of relocating - do you move right in with her or maintain some independence and live alone for a while? I think I would relocate and get my own place and work on forging my own friendships so that, if it didn't work out, I wouldn't be in some town I disliked with no support.
Peace & Love
Raven