Lesbian Relationship Challenges Support Group
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Hey there everyone, I dont know if this is the right place to post this or not (if it isnt please politely let me know) but I have been married for many years and do love my husband, but have also been in love for years with a woman. She and I have kept our relationship secret and I know that hurts her, but thats just how its been. At first I thought it was about sex, but I now know its not. I dont think I can leave my family for her and I just wanted to know if I am just being selfish and should leave her alone even though she tells me that she will stay no matter what. I appreciate any advice.
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Yes, you're being selfish but you're also being honest. If she's fully aware that you have no intention to leave your family, then the rest is up to her. I wonder if she's being honest about her feelings or if she thinks you will eventually change your mind.
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Thank you for being honest, i think i know im being selfish i just cant give her up. We have known each other for so long i just cant imagine life without her.
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ditto #1
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