ok so i have been married for over 2 years now, i just turned 22. I am married to a great nice loving guy. But i dont feel sexually attracted to him, i love him more as a best friend. As long as i can remember i have been attracted to other girls, this may sound childish..but i have never really felt nervous around guys the way girls make me feel. I mean when an attractive guy walks by i dont feel the need to look..but i do with a girl. Theres alot more i just dont know really how to explain it. I also have never acted on any of these feelings, i guess im too chicken... Its like the girls that i have been attracted to I cant be with them. And its one of the worse feelings i have ever felt. I have tried talking to my husband..even before we were married i told him but he just kind of shruged it off..and finally i brought it up again about a week ago..and he said something about a 3some which was to be expected, but honestly if i EVER did get to be with the girl i want, i dont think i could do that and i wouldnt even want to ask that of her..does this make since? And for those of you wondering why i married...i was young and stupid..trying to deny something that i was and hoping by getting married that the feeling would just go away...but there still here and it seems they are just getting stronger and stonger and honestly deep down i dont think i want them to go away now...i dont want to sound selfish but i dont think my husband and i are really going to be happy if we stay together..no matter how hard i try to change.i am who i am..right?? If anyone has ever been in the same situation please help me! I feel horrible for my husband..and im really confused too!
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